Ephesians 4:25-5:2
25 Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor, for we are all members of one body. 26 “In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, 27 and do not give the devil a foothold. 28 Anyone who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with their own hands, that they may have something to share with those in need.
29 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. 30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. 32 Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.
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1 Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children2 and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.
Growing up, I sometimes did not get along with people because of how I communicated. Either I was too quiet around people, which made them uncomfortable, or I would bluntly tell them what I thought, which would make them uncomfortable as well. I have spent some time improving my communication skills, I still have my quirks, but I am still improving. I am not where I want to be precisely but not where I used to be. My communication is a process that I am always trying to improve. Learning how to communicate with people is a skill everyone can use; talking to the right people the right way will take you places money and credentials will not.
We see an example of how to talk like a Christian here in scripture in Ephesians 4. Ephesians is a so-called Deutero-Pauline letter meaning that we can't confirm Paul wrote it, but we think he did. Ephesians was a letter for a church in Ephesus, an ancient Greek city, now present-day Turkey. The Ephesian Church was a church that had Jewish people and Gentiles coming together to form one church. Ephesian Church was a church with members born into the faith and members who recently converted to form a single church. I think the Book of Ephesians is valuable for many reasons, but the main thing is when I look at Ephesians back then, I see the church right now. If the church wants to survive another generation, we will have to go out and get new people; we cannot depend on the people in the church to have families and expect the families to stay. Some may say that the church has been around and will stay around; I say not for long on the current path. There are only so many years of burying more people than you baptize that can happen before you end up closing the doors for good. It is hard to let go of our old ways of thinking; it is easy to dip back into what we know we used to do and do well, but in Christ, all things are made new, and we can walk like it, talk like it, and live like it.
The writer says that we have new life in Christ Jesus, and with the new life, there will be a new way of living. The text is telling us to avoid vices and adopt virtues. The writer believes that the Ephesian church can rise to the occasion of being better church members, better believers, better people because they have a power working inside them that is better than any power working outside of them. The writer gives us a few things for the church to work on if the new people and the longstanding people to the faith plan to work together.
Change your Mouth
Put away all falsehoods and speak the truth to our neighbors. I read that the average person tells four lies a day. Four lies day seems like a lot, but we did lie a lot when I thought about it. You may say, Pastor, I resent that remark; how dare you call me a liar. I am not calling you a liar, but I am saying we all lie. What you do is not who you are; however, the lies we tell are about ourselves. The biggest lie most of the published reports said people told was, "I'm fine." Trouble all around us, hard to keep it together, but as soon as someone asks, "how are you doing?" The default answer is a lie. There are some other lies we tell, "just this once," or "I don't care," "you can't make me mad" I could go all day, but there are other parts of the text I want to touch. The point is Ephesians is telling us if we're going to thrive, there must be some authenticity among us. We can do things exceedingly, abundantly; above all, we could ask or imagine according to the power working in us according to Christ Jesus, but it starts with our mouths.
Change your Mind
Be angry and do not sin; there are tens of thousands of books for sale on Amazon right now about anger management. The Bible says to be angry, but do not sin, so you can be angry. The Bible also says, don't let the sun go down on your wrath. We have an issue we should address and address it quickly. How much better would our lives be if we stopped holding on to things that happened long ago? When we hold it in, we give room for the enemy to come in, and when the enemy comes in, that throws you off. I have a spades tournament championship trophy in the house that I laugh at every time I see it. My wife and I were partners in a tournament, and we were losing a game; it came time to bid the next hand, and we had nothing. We went board; that's the minimum amount you can bid for those who don't play spades. The other team went with their bid; the other team might have started to bid 7 or 8; my wife started trash-talking and tricked them into bidding higher like 10. The other group didn't make their bid, so they were set and lost points on that hand; for the rest of the game, when the other team bid, the other partner would angrily say, " You sure you don't want to ask LaTaya first? Then they would start arguing. We were in their head the rest of the game. Well, Pastor, what does that story have to do with making room for the enemy? You may not get fooled on a spades hand. Still, someone may have told you that you would not amount to anything, you can't give that room anymore, somebody might have said you weren't smart, you can't give that room anymore, people who don't pay your bills put a roof over your head, or provide you salvation should not have any room. Here are some things you can make room for, I am the righteousness of God, I am blessed in the city, blessed in the field, blessed when I come, and blessed when I go. Make room for the things of God.
Change your Moves
Be imitators of God. When you are imitating something or someone, you talk like them, and you try to look like them; you try to be the same places they are. If we want to imitate God, we should know what God says to imitate it. We should be places God would be so that we can imitate it. We should do Godly things so that we can imitate him. Can people tell you are a believer without telling them or are they shocked when they found out you belong to a church? Also, imitating God is not a one-and-done deal. The growth does not stop after baptism, joining a church, or getting active in the church; it is ongoing. God marked us with a seal for the day of redemption; this is not just a date on a calendar but a goal. The goal is to be a better Christian day by day. Bishop Scott Jones says that there is no retirement from God's work. We can always work to be better Christians today than we were yesterday. We can keep moving forward because we are not moving forward on our power.
We have new life in Christ Jesus; we can change our minds, change our mouths, and change our moves. We can forgive others because Christ has forgiven us. We can make those sacrifices and live in love because Christ already made the most significant sacrifice when he gave himself up for us.
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